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Being on the Dr Vibe show was fun and stimulating. He does a great job of asking unexpected questions, as does his surprise panel of guests.
Here are the show notes:
Recently, Shari was on our show talking about "Erectile Dysfunction And Alternative Treatment Methods Of Treating Erectile Dysfunction".
During our conversation, Shari talked about:
– Some of her background including being a stripper in Niagara Falls, New York for ten years
– How she began being a sexual healer and memories from the early days – Some of the untruths regarding erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation
– Tantra healing – Handling men who want to get into a relationship with her
– Her youngest and oldest client
– The changes she has seen in men’s behaviour since the #MeToo movement
– About how porn steals a man’s and boy’s innocence
– The relationship between masturbation and premature ejaculation
If you are taking or considering taking PDE5 Inhibitors and/or the generic versions this is a must read.
Generic Viagra is called Sildenafil.
If you are taking Viagra/Sildenafil or considering taking it you are probably aware of the common side effects.
Common side effects include:
Chronic Viagra usage is 1 or more years.
Here are the chronic side effects:
1. 10 times the risk of developing Glaucoma when taking Viagra long term ( more than 1 year.)
2. Viagra could decrease natural killer cell activity.
Natural killer cell activity are our first line of defense against cancer.
Which is naturally a concern if you are...
Gainswave™ states that it’s a solution that treats the underlying cause.
It works by utilizing high frequency, low-intensity sound waves to improve blood flow to the penis, remove micro-plaque, and stimulate the growth of new blood vessels.
It usually involves 6-12 treatments and results last two years.
What men find surprising is when they are also put on a PDE5 inhibitors (Viagra/Cialis/Levitra) in combination with this therapy.
I’ve said that, “Any treatment that only focuses on your genitals will give you temporary results.”
Frequency and sound wave treatments prove my point.
That’s because there are underlying CAUSES not just one cause.
Gainswave™ and its claim are not going deep enough.
From my perspective, Gainswave™ treats a SYMPTOM
of a man who’s body is out of balance due to his lifestyle and habits.
If you don’t treat the underlying causes...
Female Induced Erectile Dysfunction.
Yep it’s a thing.
It’s when you can’t “rise to the occasion” with one specific woman.
It’s typically with your wife or girlfriend.
There are several causes of this. Today I will focus on a few reasons.
I know that you’ve been there.
Maybe you partied too hard.
Maybe just weren't that into her.
Maybe you have ED.
You are trying like hell to “get it up.”
Perhaps you are stroking it so hard your arm is burning and beads of sweat are rolling down your face.
You are making her do it orally.
You are using any and every porn image.
It’s not working.
You know why?
BECAUSE YOUR BODY IS INTELLIGENT and it is saying NO!
For a multitude of reasons it’s a big fat NO.
“If you have to force it, you are going against the wisdom of your body.”
If you got to war with your body it will win.
So next time just let it be.
Better yet learn to work with and listen to your body.
Shari James is a miracle worker! I can't thank her enough!
My husband and I always had a deeply satisfying sex life but things slowed down after a number of years. He felt a lot of shame around his inability to perform and of course, I thought it was me, which put a terrible strain upon our otherwise happy marriage.
We searched online for recommendations and were personally referred to Shari by friends in LA. We were over the moon when we found out that she works remotely!
My husband was experiencing negative side effects from the ED medication he was on and it was taking a toll on our marriage. We wanted to get him off his medication as safely and naturally as possible. Shari's certification and experience as an RN put her in a class of her own. She would see our situation not only thru the eyes of a compassionate healer but also thru the eyes of a medical professional.
At first I had misgivings that this could work long distance but each week I saw improvement. My husband...
I started working with Shari on the recommendation of my doctor as a structured path to a healthier body.
As an older man (65 years young) affected by elevated blood pressure I wanted to find a way to go off or at least lower my medication intake, lose some weight and reverse a diminishing sex drive brought upon by the prescribed medicine.
Over twelve weeks , Shari provided me with the guidance, understanding but especially the discipline to reprogram my mind and body.
As a skeptical patient, I had to learn new breathing technics, better meditation practices and mental and physical exercises from her thorough directions.
This program motivated me toward a healthier meeting of spirit and sex (desensitize by too much porn as a substitute for ED) and a better connection to my body.
Bottom line is that almost a year later, I am still implementing what I have learned, I've maintained my weight loss, halved my blood pressure medication but most importantly, re-activated my...
The dialogue below is from a client interview of my most challenging case to date!
Shari: I am here with Aaron. And we worked together over video conference because you're in a different state. Did you have any feelings, like how the hell is this going to work over a video conference?
Aaron: Yeah, I was skeptical initially but it worked out just fine.
Shari: Yeah. It was just like hanging out in the same room.
Aaron: I guess my anxiety was about not being as computer-literate as a lot of people were and I thought I was going to screw it up but it worked perfectly.
Shari: Yeah. Yeah. Did you have a birthday since I started working with you? Because I have...
Shari: Okay. So you're...
Aaron: I'm still 64.
Shari: You're 64, you're a doctor.
Shari: It almost looks like you're wearing...
I was invited and excited to speak at Secret Knock’s March 2019 Conference in San Diego, CA.
You may be wondering, “What the heck is Secret Knock?” Secret Knock is the #1 business event that you can’t attend (unless you are invited.)
Forbes Magazine ranks it as the #2 Conference in the world.
Speakers at SK are pioneers of change. What sets this event apart is that attendees learn directly from successful entrepreneurs (as opposed to teachers, authors or professional speakers).
Greg Reid, who I would call, “a force of nature,” is the host of this eclectic networking event. He is also a best selling author, public speaker, and film producer.
With a line up of speakers such as Kevin Harrington from Shark Tank, astronaut Jerry Linenger, & genius Walter O’ Brien, I wondered, “Who am I to be speaking at this event?”
Then I realized that these speakers created something from nothing, or are pioneers in their field, and...
Intermittent ED is often an indicator that full-blown Erectile Dysfunction is on its way. Full-blown ED can be prevented by taking intermittent ED seriously and being proactive which is exactly what Eli did.
Eli is a perfectly healthy 45-year-old executive who was having intermittent ED. He didn’t want to use pills so he chose my Holistic Erectile Dysfunction Treatment.
Here is an interview I did with Eli post-treatment. We cover the highlights of his journey from intermittent ED, marriage problems that surfaced, and how it feels to be fully functioning again.
Shari: When we first spoke you considered yourself to be pretty healthy, yet you were experiencing some ED and you said that you didn't like pills and pills from doctors rarely solve a problem and you like to hit a problem at its core.
Shari: When we of talked about the ED scale and a scale from 1 to 10, you had said that you were like a 5 to 6, so obviously that presented...
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