Musings for men to master dating, mating, relating, holistic health and a wealth of other topics.
I know that you’ve been there.
Maybe you partied too hard.
Maybe just weren't that into her.
Maybe you have ED.
You are trying like hell to “get it up.”
Perhaps you are stroking it so hard your arm is burning and beads of sweat are rolling down your face.
You are making her do it orally.
You are using any and every porn image.
It’s not working.
You know why?
BECAUSE YOUR BODY IS INTELLIGENT and it is saying NO!
For a multitude of reasons it’s a big fat NO.
“If you have to force it, you are going against the wisdom of your body.”
If you got to war with your body it will win.
So next time just let it be.
Better yet learn to work with and listen to your body.
Shari James is a miracle worker! I can't thank her enough!
My husband and I always had a deeply satisfying sex life but things slowed down after a number of years. He felt a lot of shame around his inability to perform and of course, I thought it was me, which put a terrible strain upon our otherwise happy marriage.
We searched online for recommendations and were personally referred to Shari by friends in LA. We were over the moon when we found out that she works remotely!
My husband was experiencing negative side effects from the ED medication he was on and it was taking a toll on our marriage. We wanted to get him off his medication as safely and naturally as possible. Shari's certification and experience as an RN put her in a class of her own. She would see our situation not only thru the eyes of a compassionate healer but also thru the eyes of a medical professional.
At first I had misgivings that this could work long distance but each week I saw improvement. My husband...
I started working with Shari on the recommendation of my doctor as a structured path to a healthier body.
As an older man (65 years young) affected by elevated blood pressure I wanted to find a way to go off or at least lower my medication intake, lose some weight and reverse a diminishing sex drive brought upon by the prescribed medicine.
Over twelve weeks , Shari provided me with the guidance, understanding but especially the discipline to reprogram my mind and body.
As a skeptical patient, I had to learn new breathing technics, better meditation practices and mental and physical exercises from her thorough directions.
This program motivated me toward a healthier meeting of spirit and sex (desensitize by too much porn as a substitute for ED) and a better connection to my body.
Bottom line is that almost a year later, I am still implementing what I have learned, I've maintained my weight loss, halved my blood pressure medication but most importantly, re-activated my...
The dialogue below is from a client interview of my most challenging case to date!
Shari: I am here with Aaron. And we worked together over video conference because you're in a different state. Did you have any feelings, like how the hell is this going to work over a video conference?
Aaron: Yeah, I was skeptical initially but it worked out just fine.
Shari: Yeah. It was just like hanging out in the same room.
Aaron: I guess my anxiety was about not being as computer-literate as a lot of people were and I thought I was going to screw it up but it worked perfectly.
Shari: Yeah. Yeah. Did you have a birthday since I started working with you? Because I have...
Shari: Okay. So you're...
Aaron: I'm still 64.
Shari: You're 64, you're a doctor.
Shari: It almost looks like you're wearing...
I was invited and excited to speak at Secret Knock’s March 2019 Conference in San Diego, CA.
You may be wondering, “What the heck is Secret Knock?” Secret Knock is the #1 business event that you can’t attend (unless you are invited.)
Forbes Magazine ranks it as the #2 Conference in the world.
Speakers at SK are pioneers of change. What sets this event apart is that attendees learn directly from successful entrepreneurs (as opposed to teachers, authors or professional speakers).
Greg Reid, who I would call, “a force of nature,” is the host of this eclectic networking event. He is also a best selling author, public speaker, and film producer.
With a line up of speakers such as Kevin Harrington from Shark Tank, astronaut Jerry Linenger, & genius Walter O’ Brien, I wondered, “Who am I to be speaking at this event?”
Then I realized that these speakers created something from nothing, or are pioneers in their field, and...
Intermittent ED is often an indicator that full-blown Erectile Dysfunction is on its way. Full-blown ED can be prevented by taking intermittent ED seriously and being proactive which is exactly what Eli did.
Eli is a perfectly healthy 45-year-old executive who was having intermittent ED. He didn’t want to use pills so he chose my Holistic Erectile Dysfunction Treatment.
Here is an interview I did with Eli post-treatment. We cover the highlights of his journey from intermittent ED, marriage problems that surfaced, and how it feels to be fully functioning again.
Shari: When we first spoke you considered yourself to be pretty healthy, yet you were experiencing some ED and you said that you didn't like pills and pills from doctors rarely solve a problem and you like to hit a problem at its core.
Shari: When we of talked about the ED scale and a scale from 1 to 10, you had said that you were like a 5 to 6, so obviously that presented...
In this Podcast Interview, I speak with Keith Kurlander from Higher Practice. Keith is on a mission to empower therapists to achieve their highest potential. He believes that mental health professionals are catalysts for positive social change and key influencers in uplifting consciousness and alleviating unnecessary suffering.
In this peer to peer podcast, here is what we cover:
Nearly 1 in 4 men under the age of 30 suffer from erectile dysfunction and the rates are much higher when we look at the entire lifespan of a man. Most men choose to take Viagra to deal with this problem. Although there is nothing wrong with this approach under most circumstances Viagra doesn’t address the underlying cause of the issue.
Keith and I discuss the key areas that typically need to be addressed in order to resolve the underlying causes of ED. Some of them are probably not what you think.
Listen to Episode # 26 Here:
In the movie the Matrix Neo is given a choice to take the blue pill or the red pill. The blue pill would allow him to remain in the fabricated reality of the Matrix, therefore living the “ignorance of illusion”, while the red pill would lead to his escape from the Matrix and into the real world, therefore living the “truth of reality.”
Here I will highlight three cases in which the men took the “blue pill” but ultimately it was the “red pill” that turned out to be the appropriate choice. These men were 35-45yrs old and in perfect physical health. Their doctors had given them Viagra. They all came to me because either the pill did not work or they didn’t feel right about taking it long term.
What I discovered is that:
Case #1 had a long-term porn addiction, which escalated to taking sex vacations.
Case #2 had been in a 10-year marriage and his spouse suddenly and recently passed away.
Case #3 was living on stimulants...
I was first exposed to PlayBoy magazine in my early 20’s when I had a boyfriend who always kept a fresh copy in his bathroom. Each month I secretly looked through the magazine and fantasized about what it would be like to be “in” Playboy. Now years later I find myself walking “into" PlayBoy Studios to do an interview… funny how life works. I had no idea what to expect, would I feel the spirit of Hef strolling around smoking a pipe? Would there be half naked women walking around? Could I get a pair iconic bunny ears?
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